Yo~! I Don't Back Stab You Lah~! I Tell You Direct Now~!!! Lai~!

Message from Mr. P:

“Thanks a lot for back-stabbing me.
Now I know what kind of a person you are.”

I replied to Mr. P’s message:

“It is so hard from being a good friend.
So I decided to shut up my mouth
and myself from now on. Bye~!”

Thanks to myself of not being honest to Mr. P when Mr. P asking me that did I told C regarding C & D things* that Mr. P told me few months back, so I received the above so called “thanks” message.

The word “back-stabbing” annoys me. A LOT.

Back-stabbing = to attempt to discredit (a person) by underhanded means, as innuendo, accusation, or the like. (Reference from dictionary.com)

For your information Mr. P, I’m not back-stabbing you. I NEVER DID. I am just telling the truth to C because I think that she has the right to know what happened after so long (5 to 6 months back I guess) you told me and this matter were kept deep inside my heart, which I never thought of telling C. I felt C not happy so I asked and told her everything I know. Now you read properly, which sentence above is backstabbing you Mr. P???

It was my fault that I did not admit that I told C when you first sms and ask me. You even ask N to msn ask me what happened to C suddenly become like this.

Then what happen next is unbelievable! You go and whoo-haaa to everybody that I make up stories huh? Wah, within few hours my name was so famous already, thank you for the unwanted fame for me.

In Chinese words, “无风不起浪”. Don’t understand? Go and check dictionary or ask your “friend” who understand Chinese.

Just in case you are having a short term or partial memory loss, let me remind you the scenario below:

M Club

Me : Hi P, how is everything.
P : Fine.
Me : So what happened to C lately? C seems like not happy and I don’t want to ask because C no tell me
anything.
P : O k. I can tell you. Just don’t tell her that I tell you la.
Me : O k.
P : C is fond with someone. And C never meets the someone before. How can she like the someone that never met before?
Me : Who is the someone?
P : You really don’t know ah?
Me : No. Please tell me.
P : Is D.
Me : Izzit? Whoah… Like that also can ar?
P : Yes. That’s why I said.
Me : Why she like that one?
P : C knows D through N ma. N is the one who intro D to C ma. N was beside D when D just broke with his gf ma. So D said he need time to forget the ex-gf lor. C don’t want D just to become a friend ma, C wants D to become more than friend. D also very stress every time talk with C. They always argue one.
Me : Oh. (Continue to drink my beer.)

Still don’t remember? How about this one?

Jade Pub
Me : Hi P, how are you?
P : Good. I just back from outstation.
Me : Not bad ma. Eh. I heard from C you got gf already. And I saw you facebook in a relationship. Who ah?
P : No lar. Where got? All the while I single.
Me : True or not? I heard your gf is sino kadazan. Phewitt. Not bad ma. So planned to stay at Sabah already la?
P : No lar. Don’t listen to other people bah. I’m all the while single and don’t have gf bah.
Me : O k lor. Then, I heard you argued with N because of C things kan? What happened again oh?
P : Remember I told you about C and D.
Me : Yes. So?
P : C everyday call N and cried in front of N. C is hoping that N go and tell D that C cried because of D. and N felt that being used by C and N sometimes don’t feeling to answer C call. N very stress every time C called her. Why la C so stupid go and cry for a man that she never met before?
Me : Izzit? I don’t know oh. Aih… (Continue to drink my beer)

This is all the things that you told me Mr. P.
I got a very powerful memory. So who is back-stabbing who now?
Try to think for yourself la~

So Mr. P, from the above, it was YOU who started the story without being asked. It was YOU who busily back stabbing people and put the blame on me. Malay said it ah…”lempar batu sembunyi tangan” (throw the rock and hide your hand). But in this case, it’s “lempar batu, tuduh orang sebelah” (throw the rock and accuse the other person did it).

Normally, the one who talks more seems like wanted to tell the whole world that he is innocent, wanted to be hear, asking for attention. What a drama king. I seen drama queens before but meeting a drama king now is an honor to me. Just because I keep quiet doesn’t mean that I am guilty. Too much back stabbing is not good to you. Remember, what goes around comes around.

I can even started the war earlier by telling N what you told me in Jade. Did I do that? I didn’t right? Because I knew what is more important to me rather than to geh poh about somebody else. Now the accusation against me for back stabbing you is not even applicable because from the beginning, I got no one to back stab to. I only knew I got a friend that I care about – I admit that I am taking a while before telling C about what I knew. For the sake of friendship. But I will never admit that I make up the rest of the stories from what you unjustly accused me for because I NEVER DID it. In fact, I won’t waste my time for someone who is as pathetic as you.

So the conclusion of the stories above?

1 – I DID NOT back stabbing you or anyone mentioned.
2 – Instead, YOU are the one who backstab each and every one of them – D, C & N.
3 – All the conversations above are exactly what you tell, and I got no reason to alter it like you did to your stories to others about me.

I got nothing to hide.
So I got nothing to be afraid of.
I am just disappointed when a good friendship was ruined only by the words that came from the mouth of an idiot that cannot define what ‘back stabbing’ means and it wasn’t even applicable to me. So stop pointing your finger at me, because 4 more of your fingers still points back at you.